How a Real Man Treats a Lady: Get What You Deserve

Gentlemen, let’s cut to the chase => if you want a QUEEN, you need to be a KING. Period. You want her to respect you? You want her to give you the care and love you think you deserve? Well, let’s first talk about how you should be treating her. No more excuses, no more games. Time to man up.

1. Command Respect, Don’t Demand It 

A man doesn’t walk around barking orders. Respect is something you command with how you carry yourself, not something you demand. You respect her, she respects you—that’s the natural flow. Open the door, offer your arm, lead the way.

Chivalry isn’t dead; it’s just rare, like real masculinity. She should feel like she’s with someone who’s got his life in order.

2. Presence Over Presents 

Forget about trying to win her over with gifts. You think she’s impressed by your wallet? Think again. What she wants is your presence - your undivided attention.

When you’re with her, be there.

Not halfway, not with your eyes glued to your phone, not half-listening. Give her your time, because it’s the most valuable thing you can offer. Make her feel like she’s the only person in the room. That’s how you get her devotion.

3. Lead with Confidence, Not Ego

Being a leader isn’t about being a bossy control freak. It’s about guiding the relationship with confidence, knowing where you’re going, and inviting her to join you. Confidence attracts her; arrogance repels her. The line is thin, so stay grounded.

You lead with your actions, not your words. And no, “being the man” doesn’t mean you never listen. A real man knows when to take charge and when to stand beside her as a partner.

4. Protect Her Peace

The world is chaotic enough; your presence should be a place of calm for her. Protect her peace, not just from external threats but also from unnecessary drama. If you can’t be her safe space, don’t expect her to trust you. Show her that being with you means security - not just physically, but emotionally too.

5. Set the Standard, Then Raise It 

If you want her to rise to your expectations, set the standard first. Show her how you expect to be treated by how you treat her. And then raise the bar. Keep growing. A stagnant man is a boring man. Keep pushing yourself to be better—stronger, smarter, more capable. She’ll see that, and guess what?

She’ll step up, too. The best relationships are ones where both parties grow.

6. Speak with Power, Not Pettiness

Watch your tongue, because how you talk to her says everything about you. You don’t have to sugarcoat the truth, but don’t throw low blows. You’re supposed to be her rock, not her critic.

A man who talks down to a woman is just a boy trying to play grown-up. Talk to her like you respect her mind, her thoughts, and her worth. A sharp tongue can cut deep, but words of strength and wisdom? That’s what leaves an impression.

Final Word 

You want her to treat you like a KING? Earn it. Not with flash or flair, but with consistency, strength, and respect.

A lady gives her best to a man who shows he’s worthy of it. Treat her like someone who matters - not because she’s a delicate flower, but because you, as a man, know your worth and recognize hers. She’ll reflect the respect, love, and care you put out.

Stop waiting for her to hand you the crown…take your place ( NOT BY FORCE! - Otherwise nothing I have said would have been understood) on the throne by being the kind of man she can't help but admire.

Now, go be that man.

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